1_来自托福作文咩第 16 期 Day 15

beijizhu007

With the fast-changing of society, nowadays individuals are facing a huge of pressure and lacking of emotional sustenance. People need cares and companions from their families and friends. Thus, a heated discussion arouses whether people should spend time staying away from people we care about. The way I see it, we should keep some distances from people who we care about. There are two reasons and examples to illustrate my viewpoint.[br][br] Firstly, keeping some distances from peole we love is definitely conducive to our relationship mainteinance. As is known to all, even though the best feeling of love, they are also bored with each other when they always stay together. For example, one of my friends Mr fang and his wife always stay together. They eat dinner together, playing together all the time, which bring boredom to each other. He often complain that his wife deprive of his freedom. Thus, they always have a squabble with each other about these things. If they stay some distances with each other, all of these problems can be figured out.[br][br]Secondly, staying away from people we care about can let them be aware of our importance. People always do not cherish stuff which easy to get, the same to people. If they can easy to get love from people love them, they usually do not cherish them. Taking myself as a good example. Once I loved a girl who have a big black eyes and have a sweet temper. I cherish her as a apple of my eyes, and I can do everything for her. However, she ignored my love for her and do not ever have a glimpse for me. My heart was broken by her and I gave up pursuing her. After I stopped connecting with her for a couple of week, she connected with me again. She told me that she has loved me now. So from my story, you can know that keeping some distances from people you love or care about may be a good way for them to realise their heart and be aware of our importance.[br][br]Admittedly, I am not saying that we should spend less time with our families or friends as possible as we can. It is undoubtedly spending time with our families or friends are absolutely beneficial for us to develop our relationship with them. But compared with that staying away from people we care about, we can have a freedom space for each other, and realise their importance of each other.[br][br]To put it in a nutshell, we can safely draw a conclusion that it is advisable that keeping some distances from each other or giving some freedom space to each other. As an old saying that goes, the distance results in beauty. So from this perspective, staying away from people we care about not only conducive for us to develop our relationship, but also necessary for us to let them be aware of our importance.[br]

meixuanlala

since we live in such fast-paced society, and people;s emotion is esay to change. it is advisable and necessay for us to spend as much time as possible to enhance our relationship. only for that can we maintain a relationship as long as possiple.

雨晴-萱

Put it in a nutshell, I suppose that time apart would damage our relationship. Doing things is not together fore a long time, you will lose your friends. How long didn’t you spend time with your friends? Is he or she still your friends that can talk about any things? Now, take your phone and call your firends to do somethings together, to find happy that you have lost.

Wxx15

All in all, no matter what attitudes we hold to the issue, we have a common intention, that is to maintain the relationship and stronger it. Only personally speaking, I think the latter way is a better choice.

擀面皮

In short, it depends on you. If you think company is worth to spend much time, you can choose this mannar to maintian your relationship. But if you think it's unworth to spend much time, you can choose to keep an suitable distance. I perfer to choose the latter lifestyle. I think we would rather live our life to the fullest than spend much to cater to others.